The Talley Family

When God Moves

2012-01-30T16:29:00.003-06:00

Ever been standing in a room and felt the spirit of the Lord move all around you? Well, I did this past weekend as we had our Women's Retreat, "Clinging To God's Promises," and what a great time we had! God moved and needs were met. Our praise and worship was led by Matt Treherne from New Life Baptist Church in Brent, Alabama and it was amazing. It is so funny how God works. I had not shared with Matt the theme for the weekend, however God led him to the songs that went just perfect with our theme. The words that we sang were never more true than they were this weekend.

Our first speaker, Ginger Jacks from Montgomery, had an amazing testimony how God can and will get you through some of the darkest days you could ever image going through. She lost her daughter to a car accident at the young age of 18 years old. Her daughter, Virginia, was so full of life and in love with Jesus. She shared some things Virginia had written just weeks before her passing. They were so inspiring to others and such comfort to this grieving mother. One thing I remember Ginger sharing was when they had to tell their youngest son that Virginia had been killed. She said that he looked at her and asked, "When Virginia was born, did God know then when she would die?" WOW! Our Lord and Savior knows everything about us. I think it is amazing that He allows us the opportunity to live here on this earth and all He really asks is that we be a witness for Him. Is your light shining?

I put my friend Alison Cottingham on the spot and asked her to share her testimony of how God had moved in her life. At the age of 3, Alison's little girl, Carys was diagnosed with a Wilms Tumor. She talked about how God had been preparing her for that diagnosis and the road they would travel as a family for a long time. I can't help but wonder what He is preparing me for? How does God want to use me? Will I be ready? Praise God! He healed Carys and she is now a healthy 7 year old...a sassy 7 year old if you ask her mama. It is amazing to see prayers be answered. Some are the way we want, some are not. You see, Alison, lost her father to cancer at the early age of 40. She has been on both sides of this disease. She has seen God heal and restore and she has seen Him call his children home. Lessons were learned when she lost her dad that helped her face Carys's illness. Lessons were learned throughout Carys's illness and treatment that she will carry with her forever.

Our last speaker of Saturday was my amazing friend Jamie Cagle. Jamie is 34 years old and is fighting a very aggressive form of cancer. She has 8 tumors in her liver and her options are few. Throughout Jamie's testimony, she shared how God had planted "special people" in her life to help her through this trying time. You never know whose life you have been placed in to be a guiding stone from time to time...whether it be a listening ear, a car rider for a medical trip, a hand holder or a prayer warrior. Are you asking for God to show you where He wants to use you to help others? Her message to us was not to take one moment for granted. To live each moment for the moment because you don't know what the next holds. Jamie is a fighter and I have no doubt that God was smiling down on her this past weekend. She gives Him the glory for each day. Please join me in praying for this dear friend. She is fighting a battle where the odds are stacked against her, however she BELIEVES that God will heal! She is praying for a miracle! Will you join us in this petition?

Hearing women cry out to Jesus to meet their needs, physical, emotional and spiritual is like nothing else. To be in a room where you are able to feel vulnerable enough share your hurts, your hearts desires and your tears is a powerful thing. The prayers of God fearing women is amazing. To know that you have sisters in Christ lifting you up is an overwhelming feeling. God has called us to lift one another up, to love one another and just simply be there for one another. This weekend, new relationships were formed and I know there were some mighty prayer warriors praying. God has heard our cries and I can not wait to see how we choose to move. No matter where you are, no matter what you are going through, He is a God of forever. He designed and created you to be you...just the way you are. He wants to be the one you turn to, He wants to dry your tears and take away your hurt. Oh how He loves you!

Until next time...

When life hands you lemons...Give them to Jesus!

2012-01-24T08:19:00.002-06:00

Man! What a roller coaster ride it has been over the past 2 weeks. The headaches returned and medication had to be adjusted and adjusted again. I was rather saddened over the increase in the Diamox for I know that coming off of that is the only way James and I can move forward with having another baby. God knows what He is doing...we just have to trust in Him. I guess my heart was not fully doing that since the headaches began after being taken off of one and reducing the other medication. Knowing and doing are two different things. Maybe we are entitled to be 'upset' for a day or two until we can come to grips with the fact that there are worse things out there. I am sure God understands.

This past weekend was really tough. I had a headache the entire weekend and nothing was a remedy. It would be nice if these pesky things were like normal headaches and an Aleve, some chocolate or a nap would fix it, but nothing does. The pain behind my eye was so bad on Saturday, I told James it would feel better just to pop my eyeball out with a fork...sorry for the details! That sounds pretty gross doesn't it?!

Sunday came and as my eyes opened, I remember thinking, "Is it there?" YEP! The headache was there! Most of the day it was just a dull pain behind my eyes. These headaches this past weekend were different than the others, they lasted pretty much all day. Typically, they would be gone by lunchtime. I had too much to do to have a lasting headache! An awesome day of Sanctity of Life at church that I did not want to miss, an interview for a summer babysitter (she is awesome by the way!), meetings and then a seminar. Too much to do to be down with a headache. God gave me the strength to get up and get going! Life can't stop because of a pain- no matter how much we want it to for a while-we must carry on!

Yesterday morning James reminded me to call Dr. V and let him know that the increase in Diamox and no migraine medication was not working. I called and spoke with Dr. V (may I just interject that I LOVE it that when I call, I speak to him...not his nurse, not an assistant, but HIM! God knew that I needed for this man to treat this disorder. He had a plan!) and he was on board with us decreasing the Diamox to 250 mg/day and adding the migraine medication again. This was a medication combination that we have not tried yet and guess who woke up this morning WITHOUT a headache...that's right! I did! I am not going to put too many eggs in my basket just yet, but this may be the right dose for me for now. Thank you Lord!

I am so thankful that I have a doctor who will listen when I call and say something has to change, for a staff who makes sure that he knows I have called and works to get him to the phone as soon as possible, for this medication and even though we have to play with it from time to time, it works, for my family who cares enough to pray for me daily, for my church family who loves me and wants to see me healed and medicine free and for James who puts up with me when I don't feel good and somehow knows when to call "just to check on me." God is so good and He never ceases to amaze me! My new motto is going to be "When life hands you lemons (and you know everyone's does) GIVE THEM TO JESUS!" He wants them. He knows what we need way better than we do! He wants to see us happy and pain free and oh how he loves us!

Until next time...

Even if but for a short while...

2012-01-19T10:55:00.002-06:00

Isaiah 40:31 "But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary, and they shall walk and not faint."

I've had to go back, read my last post and pray over the words that flowed from my heart. A couple of hours after I posted yesterday, my medication dose was increased back to 500mg/day due to headaches. I had put off calling the dr. thinking that the headaches were just my body trying to adjust...wishful thinking! When I spoke with Dr. V he told me I had two choices. 1)Go back to the migraine pill at night (which made me grumpy) or 2)Increase the Diamox back to 500 mg each night. I feel like I can tell a difference in my mood since coming off of the migraine medication, so I chose the Diamox (not happy about it, though!).

I am sad to report that I woke up with a headache again this morning. Maybe the increased Diamox is not what I need...who knows?! This is all a trial and error case I guess and we have to play with it until we have the right combination.

Everyone is telling me that it could be worse and I know that in my heart-these small setbacks just don't make me a happy girl!

I guess today's prayer request is that I will be able to see the bigger picture and stop focusing on the here and now. God has a plan, I just must be patient enough to allow it to unfold. I have to remember that He holds me in His hand and oh how He loves me!

Until next time...

There is always a silver lining...

2012-01-18T10:11:00.002-06:00

Sorry it has been so long since I've updated. Last Tuesday, James and I traveled to Birmingham to meet with Dr. Vaphiades for my first re-check since being placed on my medication. For some reason, I was very nervous about this visit! I don't know if it was because I was afraid the scales would not give me credit for losing the weight (15 lbs!!), if it was because it was my first visit back or if secretly I really wanted good news-like getting to come off my medication! Before we left, I had already decided that at least a decrease in the meds would be a good thing!

They called us in and asked some questions, then off to the scales we went. The first scales gave me a number I was not so pleased with, so the nurse took me to the set where I had first weighed back in October! Much to my pleasing, those scales read much better!! We then were off to see Dr. V! He came in and gave me a good look over and said that my eyes looked good. He noted that the swelling of my optic nerves has gone down!! YEA!!!! He commented on my weight and told me to keep up the good work! He then looked at me and asked: "Would you like to come off some of your medication?" Well, hello! That is a no brainer! This girl wants a baby and needs to be off the meds for that to happen! With a huge, I mean HUGE smile on my face, I said "Yes, Sir!"

We talked about the migraine medication I was taking at night and I told him I thought I could do without it. I really feel like it had changed my mood for the worst and it may be best that we not continue with that. He agreed and told me he was comfortable with me decreasing my Diamox to 250 mg at night (from 500 mg). This made for one happy girl! I don't know how much I heard after this point! I do not have to go back until May. What a relief! I have 4 more months to get more of this weight off and pray over these optic nerves!! God will continue to move and work-in His time!

Sweet James treated me to dinner afterwards and then to Target! Fun date time with the hubs!

It is so hard NOT to see how God has had His hand in all of this from the beginning. He allows little curves in our paths to deter us from time to time. Maybe we need to gain sight of His plan and realize that our way is not the best way. Little bumps in the road only heighten our dependency on Him. They cause us to grow in ways that we may never had before. He pulls us closer to Him and teaches us to lean on Him for all of our needs. Then, He helps us to see the people He has placed here on earth just for us! I must say He has blessed me with the most amazing family, friends and prayer warriors ever! All because He loves me so! Oh how He loves me. He continues to show His love for me every day. I don't always stop to realize it, but the love is always there. My God is amazing and His mercies are new every day. My prayer is that everyone is able to see the silver lining in their situations and circumstances. That silver lining is Jesus. He is the good when there seems to be no good. He is the love that helps us endure. He is the everlasting protector that has our best interest at heart.

Our Women's Ministry is preparing for our annual Women's Retreat. This year, the theme is "Clinging To God's Promises." We must do that each and every day. Cling to his promise of love and mercy! Cling to Him!

Prayer Requests:
1. Please remember my friend Jamie Cagle. She is fighting cancer and needs a lift from the Lord daily. She is in her 30s and facing tough decisions. Her faith is strong and she knows that God is still working miracles. She is waiting patiently for hers. Her husband Brandon is a rock, but I can't imagine the toll this has taken on him. She has 2 girls who she adores and her parents still she her as "their little girl." Please lift them up with me!
2. Please continue to pray that the weight will come off. This seems to be the trick to "fixing my head!" haha If that is even possible!! :) My appetite is better some days than others, however my taste buds have not returned to normal. This could be a good thing. Since my favorite things don't taste as good as they once did, it makes it a lot easier not to eat the things that are not so good for me. I still have not had a soda since October. Some days (most days) a Mt. Dew sure would taste good!! I am learning to adjust!
3. Please continue to pray that the headaches, as mild as they may be some days, will stay away. It is frustrating to have these pesky things that will not seem to go away some days-no matter the amount of Aleve that I take and I don't want to have to call the Dr. Going back to an increased amount of medication is not what we want. I am learning that what we want may not always be what God sees that we need.
4. Please join me in praying for our Women's Retreat. God is all over this and He has prepared a wonderful weekend of spiritual renewing for us! He is ready to meet us. Please pray that our hearts and minds will be ready to receive him. Please pray for our speakers and for those who will be attending. Let's cover this weekend in prayer together. We will join together January 27-28. I can't wait to share with you what took place!

Until next time...

Almost A New Year!

2011-12-28T14:42:00.003-06:00

WOW! Can you believe that 2011 is almost behind us? Where in the world did the time go? It seems the older I get, the quicker time goes by. As I sit and think about the year gone by, I have so much to be thankful for (in no particular order): (1)James and I have been blessed with the most amazing little man (even though we may want to ring his neck sometimes)! His desire to know more is inspiring and his love for others is overwhelming. He really does have a sweet heart. It melts my heart to hear him tell me that he loves me. (2)My health. Even though it seems as though we made LOTS of visits back and forth to doctors offices, it could have been a lot worse. My epilepsy has been controlled and for that I am so thankful. (3)Our families. Without them we would be lost. From last minute babysitters, to lending much needed advice, they are always there. Family is so important and I hope that is one thing that we are able to teach Evan that he will carry with him forever. (4)Our amazing friends. They are the ones that we cry out to when we need someone to pray. I am so thankful for my "oldies but goodies" and my new found friends all the same! I firmly believe that God brings people in and out of your life to fulfill pieces that you never knew you needed. Sometimes, we get lucky and those people stick around for a while. We love you guys! (5)Our jobs. The economy is still having a tough time and there are still so many without jobs. I am so thankful that James and I are both able to work. (6)Touch of Talley Photography. This hobby turned part-time job has been such a release for me! It has allowed me to explore my creativity, make new friends and help others make memories that will last forever! Thank you to my clients for helping me make this dream a reality. (7)Our wonderful church and church family. This year, they have ministered to our family in more ways than we can count. The endless prayers, the meals, the hugs, and the visits have warmed our hearts. I don't see how people make it through difficult times without a church family to lean on. The people of First Baptist Wetumpka are the greatest! (8)Our salvation. Without Jesus we would be lost. He is the rock that we cling to and the light that we look for at the end of the tunnel. He is our saving grace. Jesus has brought us to where we are and I know that He is guiding our path. My prayer is that we will continue to seek His will and follow with an open heart. (9)And last but not least, each other. Well, I am thankful for James and I hope he is thankful for me! He is my best friend. At the end of the day, he is there for me. I love to see his face as I close my eyes to sleep and feel his kiss in the morning light. How lonely would this world be had God not created us for one another? It was His intent, His plan and for that I am so THANKFUL!

Over this past weekend, we celebrated the birth of our Savior, grieved with friends over the loss of their loved one, pondered over what is to come and hopefully (at some point) remembered to thank Jesus for all He has done. My God is great and I feel so blessed to be able to praise His name.

I pray that your 2012 will be even better than your 2011. I pray that you find peace with Jesus and yourself. I pray that all the "lessons needing to be learned" come quickly-maybe I should say, I pray that you learn those lessons quickly. God has so much to teach us; things to make this life better than we ever dreamed. Share your hopes and dreams with Him and watch Him make them a reality. Love on the ones you hold dear. Tell people that you love them. Give hugs and kisses while you can and never stop believing that God is great. Just remember oh how He loves us!

Until next time...

A Little Update

2011-12-22T13:35:00.002-06:00

Greetings All! I did not realize it had been so long since my last post. Things medically are going really well. I had a few episodes of some headaches and return symptoms several weeks ago, however we discovered that I was being over-medicated. How about that?! It is strange that you have a condition that has these symptoms and the medication they put you on also have those as side effects. How in the world are you supposed to know the difference when they are exactly the same?! Fortunately, my great Dr. V did. After one phone call, he felt confident that "too much medicine" was my problem. He decreased it by half and placed me on a small dose of a migraine medication at night. It was crazy at how quickly those symptoms/side effects went away! Praise the Lord!

This quick fix was an answered prayer of mine. I was fearful that I was going to have to undergo another spinal tap and have to be off work for an extended period of time. Dr. Troglen has been so good to work with me and support me when I needed to be off. Here is yet another answered prayer.

Those of you reading and following my blog may think that each and every time all I do is say "this is an answered prayer..." but that is truly what this whole experience has been...one answered prayer after another. Our God is so faithful and true. He never leaves us and oh how he loves us!

Most of you know I was told that losing weight was going to be a huge factor of treatment for me. The Dr. wanted me to lose 10-15 pounds and to date, I have lost 15. This is huge for me seeing how I have no, I mean NO self control when it comes to my favorite foods!!! :) My taste buds have changed due to the medication, so that has helped a great deal, but I also know I have had a lot of people praying that I would be able to do all that was necessary to lose the weight and control the side effects of the pseudotumor.

I am so thankful for my family and friends that have rallied around me to support and love me through the diagnosis and beginning stages of treatment. There was so much that we just did not know for a while. Now, I am glad that I can say with a smile on my face that I am finally feeling like Heather again!

Some have asked about James and me having another baby. With this medication, being pregnant is not an option. I go back to see Dr. V in January and I am very anxious to see what he has to say about me staying on the medication. He is not one that feels that medication is the answer and for that I am thankful.

Prayer Requests:
Please be in prayer that James and I will be open to hear all that Dr. V has for us in January and that I (mainly) will be ok with staying on meds if that is what he feels is best for me. Also, please pray that I will be able to continue with the weight loss. From what Dr. V has told me, the more weight I lose, the better my chances are at keeping the side effects away.

Thanks again for your continued prayers, love and encouragement.

Until next time...

Unexpected Surprises...Expected Answered Prayers!

2011-11-01T15:27:00.002-05:00

We made it through the weekend without too much talk of "Next Tuesday." Jesus and I talked a lot this particular weekend. I know that He knows our hearts, but sometimes (always) He wants to hear from us just what it is that we want. So, in true Heather form, I began to tell (ask) Him. I had not been scared about any of this until I was sitting in that chair looking across from my dr. unsure of what he was about to tell me. So, I prayed about my fears. Over the past 4 years I have learned that I don't do fearful very well. I like to be confident. I like to feel confident in decisions, I like to feel confident in others, and I like to feel confident in myself. I was missing that. So, I prayed. I needed for Him to take that fear and wash it all away...I could not do it. I needed for Him to restore my vision that seemed to be getting worse with each visit and test. It was obvious that there was nothing I could do about that either. It had to be a God thing. On the way home for church Sunday morning, WE had church in the Talley Durango! These words rang through our speakers and tears began to flow down my cheeks. It was just like He knew what I needed to hear in that very moment!
"When I call on Jesus! All things are possible! I can mount on wings as eagles and soar!
When I call on Jesus! Mountains are gonna fall! Cause he'll move heaven and earth to come rescue me when I call!!"
Now, I call that a true Jesus moment! He was making sure I knew that all I needed to do was call on him. In that moment, it was Jesus and me! He calmed my heart, my fears and mind. Once I dried my tears, I looked back and see my sweet little man sitting in his car seat with the sweetest expression on his face. He caught a glimpse of me and said "I love you, Mommy!"

Well, as days tend to do, day turned to night and night to day and we found ourselves on the eve of Tuesday, October 18. James was not going to be able to make and neither could my mom. So, what did I do? I called in my adopted Wetumpka grandma...Mrs. Jean! She and Mr. Fred have been so sweet to me and my family since we joined FBC. Being able to have them as part of our lives is another reason why I feel the Lord led us to First Baptist.

Mrs. Jean agreed to meet me at 6 am and off we would go. Little did we know that this "short trip" would end up being an all day event!

When I left the office last Thursday, Dr. V. told me I would need to come back and re-take one 30 minute test and then be on my way. Well, when I got there, there was paperwork to complete (I feel like these sweet girls know everything about me by now) and an eye exam. After the eye exam, I went in for the field vision test (this is what I was really there for, the test that I failed so miserably 5 days before). I had to wait 30 minutes in between taking this test (they wanted me to take it twice), so I re-did a pregnancy test (which was negative) and hung out with Mrs. Jean. After taking the test, I was taken back to the case study room to wait on the results to see if I now qualified for the study.

Let me interject here by saying that I asked the Lord to make this decision and path really clear. I needed to be certain, one way or another, that I was making the right choice...the one that He had for me. It was then up to me to listen and respond.

After sitting, for what seemed like forever, Ashley (the case worker) came in and told me that there was something a bit strange with my vision. It appears as though my blind spot is a lot lower than the average persons. I was seeing blinking lights and was clicking the button, which would cause the machine to shut off, since the machine knew I was not supposed to be seeing the lights (this is why they kept saying, only click if you are certain you see a flashing light). Sign from God #1. She asked if I wanted to re-take the test again and see if the results would be different or if I just wanted to proceed with treatment. I was a mess. I asked if I could call James and see what words of wisdom he had for me. He told me that it was up to me. He felt like I would benefit from the study, but the decision was mine. He would support me either way (altogether now, aww, how sweet--haha). By now I am a little tearful and feel like maybe my mom can help, so to the phone I go! I called her and once again, it was left up to me. She did voice that she would feel better with me just going ahead with treatment. I just could not find ease. By now, tears are starting to fall and I looked at Mrs. Jean and said, "I have prayed that God would make this clear to me and I just don't want to not listen." This was a FLASHING light from God, I just was not paying attention. Sweet Mrs. Jean gave me a pat on my shoulder...I knew she was praying.

Ashley came back in to the room and explained that I did not qualify for the study but it was not because of the blind spot...you ready??? My vision had improved too much to qualify! Now! How about that! SCREAMING VOICE OF GOD!! I fell apart at this point and began to apologize. I told her I did not know why I was so emotional, I just felt completely overwhelmed. There is something about seeing your prayers be answered. My God is amazing! He does this every day for every one! We just don't take the time to see the answered prayers before us! Mrs. Jean spoke up and said, "Well Heather, we have all been praying and this is what we have been praying for!"

Ashley immediately began to think she had given a false hope that I was all cured, but I quickly explained to her that any improvement was better than none and most certainly better than a decline. I told her that I had prayed and this was what I had asked for. God had heard my cries. Well lo and behold, she started to tear up! The Spirit was definitely moving in that room that day! Dr. V. came in and was not giving up on me participating in the study. I simply looked at him and told him that it was ok and that was the way it was supposed to be.

He sent us away for lunch while he tried to get it approved for me to be included (you had to fall within a range and I was like .01 "to good" to participate). He sent me away with a prescription for the drug, in case they would not let me participate, and an appointment to see him again. I was in the car calling James and my parents and Shareka (case worker) called to let me know they were not letting me in...answered prayer. I thanked them for everything and told them I would see them in January!

Mrs. Jean and I stopped for lunch after leaving and tried to digest all that had happened. I am so thankful she was able to go with me. I would have been fine being there alone, but there is something powerful about a praying woman! I know that she prayed for me that day. Words will never be enough to say thank you Mrs. Jean!

I filled my prescription that afternoon and started my first dose that night. The side effects are interesting. There is a tingle in my fingers (that has now moved into my hands) and toes (that has now moved into my legs to my knees) and also my lips...try kissing with tingly lips...thats an interesting one! My mouth stays dry most of the time and my appetite has decreased. Since my first dose of the new medicine, I have lost 6 pounds (answered prayer). You all know weight loss is something I have to do as part of my treatment plan, so this is not so bad. The worst part has been that my taste buds have changed-not for foods, but for soft drinks. I have not had a Mt. Dew since the 18th!!! Oh my goodness!!! I would give anything to have one! Thank goodness I can still have sweet tea-answered prayer!! I can still have any food that I want, those taste buds have not changed, so that is a good thing.

Prayer Requests:
1) That meds will continue to work as needed 2) That I will get some energy back 3) That I can continue to lose the weight as needed 4) That I can learn to live without Mt. Dew!!

Until next time...

A long, long day!

2011-10-25T15:26:00.003-05:00

Friday, October 14 meant it was time for us to travel back to Birmingham for a visit with Dr. V and his staff! Since my eyes were going to have to be dilated, I did not think it would be the best idea for me to travel alone and have to drive back by myself. James could not make the trip, so my mom was able to meet me in Calera and ride with me (thanks Mrs. Betty!) and then drive Evan and me back to their house. It was homecoming at Bibb County, so I was excited to go to the game and see old friends! The appointment started right on time and with some of the same stuff. I had to go over paperwork and do a pregnancy test (this has to be done each time to ensure that I am not since I CAN NOT be pregnant while on this medication). Once these things were done, it was time for the eye exams!

The eye exams were fine, not much had changed...not too much can change, I don't guess, when you already can't see! haha! From there, I went to do my field vision test. It was the strangest thing! She kept saying, "Only press the button if you are sure you are seeing the light." My response was, "I am only pressing the button when I see the light." Come to find out she could not find my blind spot. Now, we all know that everyone has a blind spot. I completed those tests knowing that I may have to redo them. What joy!

I moved from there to have images made of my eyes. This was pretty cool! They took me to a machine that got really close to my eyeball and had me hold my eyes open really wide. When she took the image, it was showing all of the veins and vessels in the eye. It was pretty cool to see, not to mention my eyelashes looked amazing (haha!). The tech was very sweet and very patient as she could see I was a bit anxious and tired. By this point, we had been there for a couple of hours and my eyes had been dilated 2 times.

From there, I repeated the field vision test. It was more of the same...see the flashing light, click the button and once again I was hearing, "Heather, only click if you see." By this point, my flesh was wanting to surface, so Jesus and I were having a little heart to heart! It is amazing how calming that can be! What if every time we felt our 'flesh' begin to surface we did that! How different would our responses be? What would others see in and through us? Hopefully the love of Jesus!

After the vision test, it was time for more pictures. By this point, I was DONE! Do you hear me? D.O.N.E!! It is 4:45pm and we have been at this since 12:50 pm. My sweet Evan has been so good, he has not complained and my poor mother has been dragged all over! The tech begins the test and the more she tells me to open my eyes and not blink, the more I want to blink! UGH! She kept asking if I wanted a break and I would simply answer with a "No, let's get this done!" I did not notice that she made a phone call in the middle of the test, but this will be important later in our day. This test seemed to go on forever! We finally wrapped up about 5:15 and the tech got a page. We thought we were on our way home when she looks and says, Dr. V needs to see you again.

When we got upstairs, I saw my case worker, Shareka and she had a very serious look on her face. Once in the exam room, I told my mom something was wrong. She provided comforting words, but for the first time since all of this came up, I was scared. There was Evan. My little man. My love- looking so much like his daddy, the man I had given my whole heart to. I didn't know what to do. I began to pray. Dr. V came in rather quickly and sat down in front of me, behind his equipment and told me that they had detected something in some pictures and he needed to take another look. I told him I was scared and he told me that he knew, but he needed for me to relax. For the 3rd time- my eyes were dilated! Whew! They needed a rest!

Once he finished he said that he had called in back-up from the hospital and he wanted Dr. Shaw to take a look. He came in, looked and said that he felt comfortable saying that whatever they saw in the images was not really there and that my eye (right) appeared to be ok. Dr. V said that it looked like the bottom half of my right eye was black and that would have been caused by head trauma/bleeding behind the eye. That would not have been a good thing! Since they both felt like I was ok, Dr. V told me he would keep a watch on it but I was free to go home. He did inform me that I had failed the field vision test really badly and that I needed to come back to re-take the test. So, I scheduled my appointment for the following Tuesday. I think I have learned every crack in I-65 by now!!

Once again, God shown His faithfulness to me. 1) He helped me to get through all of the testing even though I was so tired 2) He helped keep my little man peaceful and at ease while he waited 3) He made it possible for my mom to be there so I would not have to be alone 4) He sent wonderful people to work with me throughout the day to bring encouragement and 5) He was there holding my hand when possibly really bad news was to come. I felt the Lord there with me, with his arms wrapped so tightly around me. No words could ever explain how that feels. The power of God is amazing and I am so blessed to have been able to experience it firsthand! I pray that I am eager and open to share all He has done for me when He provides the opportunities!

Until next time...

Back and Forth We Go!

2011-10-24T09:59:00.005-05:00

On Tuesday, October 11, James and I traveled to see Dr. V to hopefully find out something about the LP that I had done the week before. I met with my sweet case workers, completed my eye exams, had a field vision test and then saw Dr. V. After this visit, we were to go to the Kirklin Clinic to visit with my neurologist for my 6 month visit. Whew! It was going to be a long day!!

My case workers, Shareka and Ashley were so sweet! They took the time to get to know James and me! It was such a blessing to know that we (or I) was much more than just a case number! They had to ask all sorts of medical history questions and even got some information on how sweet our Evan is (we didn't make them pay for that!). Frankie was the lady that would conduct my eye exams. She was very friendly and worked to make sure I was comfortable. The eye exams were a little frustrating because I could tell that I was not seeing what she was wanting me to see. My sight is just not what it used to be (and thats not saying much, cause it has never been good!). The field vision test was not one of my most favorite parts of the day. They stuck my head in a machine and asked to me click this button every time I saw a flashing light. Well, every time I saw the flashing light she would question me and that would make feel like I was really messing this one up! I continued on and then saw Dr. V. He was great- as usual! He conducted my exam and made sure all of our questions were answered. It is nice to have a physician that you feel truly has your best interest at heart!

All in all I would say that our visit to the Callahan Eye Foundation was a success...it was long, but I think it was a success. We did have to schedule a revisit for that Friday, but we knew to expect frequent visits in the beginning.

From there we went for my regular 6 month check up at the Kirklin Clinic. We were meeting with a lady who specializes in women with epilepsy. When we made this appointment six months ago, we felt like we may be ready to try for another little one and just wanted to hear from her about side effect on the fetus, statistics and all, and any other information she could give about my current medication. I felt the appointment with her put our minds and hearts at ease. Now, no, we are not ready to begin the process of having another baby. This new diagnosis has somewhat thrown a kink in that, but we are trusting that when God shows us that the time is right, that even though I have to be medicated and on this medication specifically, that all will be ok. Now, with that said, we will be calling on our prayer warriors! With any pregnancy comes the chance that something may go wrong or that birth defects could grow, but the medication simply increases those chances. I know and I trust that with God we can beat those odds. My God is bigger than any statistic or percentage!!

Once we left Birmingham, we met my parents for dinner and picked little man up after an extended stay in Centreville. Man was he rotten! I think he would have been ok having dinner with us and then going back with Nana and Big Daddy. You know he has figured out that he gets to do whatever he wants when he is there. I am so thankful that he was able to go and spend some time with them! I am sure it was just as good for them as it was for him!

God continues to answer prayers! How many times can I say how faithful my God is? He is always there and always comes through! He is able and oh how he loves me!!

Until next time...

With a Lumbar Puncture comes R.E.L.I.E.F!!!

2011-10-24T08:40:00.003-05:00

On Monday, October 3, James and I made a trip to Brookwood Hospital in Birmingham for me to have my Lumbar Puncture (LP). It was difficult for me to leave town since when we woke up, Evan was running a temperature. It broke my heart to leave my sick baby, even though I knew it was something that had to be done. I knew his Papa would take good care of him, but there is nothing like having your mama when you don't feel good!

We made it there safely-which was answered prayer number 1! For those who may not know what an LP is, it is where they place a long, skinny needle into the spine, more specifically, the spinal fluid sac, to retrieve fluid. They will draw off what they need and then simply place a band-aid. Sounds easy enough...right? The pressure that comes with this can be painful. The pain is not always so much during the procedure, but afterwards. Previous to this one, I had had two before. The first was a terrible, I mean terrible, experience. The Dr. could not get the spinal in and was not very patient with me and my nerves. I was scared to death! Try knowing that you need to lie still, however knowing that there is a needle being injected...not too easy to be still! The second, on the other hand, was the complete opposite! The Dr. was patient and put me at ease. He told me "I need for you to lie on your back..." and I was like "Are you done?" It was the best experience! On a side note...the people at Brookwood, were so helpful and nice. From the sweet lady that checked me in, to the insurance filing lady, to the gentleman who took me to the waiting room, to the tech that assisted the Dr. to the Dr. They were so accommodating! This was answered prayer number 2! Thank you Lord for sending kind people to ease already anxious nerves!

At Brookwood, they use the X-Ray machine to find the tiny space where they need to enter. This was different, but I must say I think it helped! I only felt the numbing stick and then no more pain. The pressure was intense at times....even causing me tingle in certain places from time to time...but there was no pain! PRAISE THE LORD! This was answered prayer number 3 for the day! Our God is so good!

Once the LP was complete, they sent me on my way. I think this is where the end of the week troubles began! When James got me home, to bed I went and there I camped out until Wednesday. Some days were better than others, but that comes with having any procedure. God gave me the best husband. He took wonderful care of me while I was "bed-bound" for several hours!! God has blessed our family with a wonderful church family. They have rallied around James and me and poured out prayers on our behalf! They knew the that I would be unable to be up and about for several hours, so they made sure that we had meals! No questions asked! What an amazing group of people we have been blessed with! Some people take this for granted, but please trust me that I do not! I live in a town away from my parents, grandmother and aunt. It means SO much to have people surround you and truly love you for being you. They don't question you, don't talk about you, they just love you and take care of you. For that I am so thankful! My God is so good and once again he has proven oh how He loves me!

Wednesday, I noticed I was having a headache that made me feel as though I either wanted to throw up or pass out. After my lunchtime nap, it was gone, so I did not think much more about it. James and I talked it over and I decided to go back to work the next day.

Thursday, I got up and dressed, ready for my day! While putting my make-up on, I sat down on the toilet and noticed that made my head hurt really badly, so I stood up...and just like magic, the pain was gone! I got Evan in the car and we headed to Amy's!! The moment I sat down, the pain rushed to my head and caused me to shake! I called James immediately and told him something was wrong! He asked if I had called the Dr. Since I had not, I decided now may be a good time. I called and left a message, told them my symptoms and asked that they call back as soon as they could. Well, as it always is, when I stepped away from my phone, they called! The minute my feet hit the ground, the headache was gone. Once inside Amy's, I asked to lie on her couch and the pain was relieved even more being flat. This was the strangest thing I had ever endured (and the worst pain while sitting--and I have had labor contractions!).

I called Dr. Vaphiades back and told me to go straight to the ER to have a blood patch done. Dr. V was going to call ahead so they would be expecting me. I called James and he met me at church. We left from there and headed to Jackson, thinking a simple ER visit would be all it would take. Well, by the time I got there, the pain was so bad, I began to vomit. I must confess, I have never had pain be so bad that it made me do this. James looked as though he felt so bad for me, but he did look cute with his suit and my purse!! :)

After about 5 minutes, they tell us that they can't do the procedure in the ER, they are sending me to the OR! Well...that was not in the plans for the day!! Thank you Lord for a little Thursday morning surprise!! God's hand was in all of this from the beginning. He planted people throughout my day that provided such encouragement and were so kind! That is really something I am striving to be each and every day....more and more kind! Maybe this was a lesson for me!! Anyway, a blood patch is where they take blood from your arm and place it near or directly in the injection site from the LP and fill the space where the fluid is leaking. Sounds a little gross?! Sorry! Whatever it is called, or whatever it does, it is FABULOUS! It worked immediately!!! There was no pain...not even sitting up!! AMAZING! I am so thankful for the sweet people that took such wonderful care of me while in the holding area and then during the procedure. They were all so nice!

We were headed back home and I was headed back to bed and that is where I camped out for the next 2 1/2 days!!! Now, I have been in bed all week! Not as much fun as it may sound! My parents came for a visit, which was wonderful and decided to take Evan home with them so James and I could rest for a few days. Man was our house quiet. I don't think I liked it!! Four days is too long for me to go and not see my little man's face!

Some things I learned while being flat on my back...
1) My ceiling fans and walls really need to be dusted!! 2) God is so faithful to provide the things that we need, even when we don't think we really need them 3) God loves us so much that he makes sure that we have the right support system in place to help us through difficult times 4) God never leaves or forsakes us! He is always with us 5) God brings a sense of calm and peace! 6) God answers His children's prayers!!

Thank you for praying and thank you for loving me!

Until next time...

Now We Wait...AGAIN!

2011-09-28T15:15:00.002-05:00

The Dr.'s office called this morning and they said we were not going to be able to do the Spinal Tap tomorrow because there was more bloodwork that needed to be done. Well, that just did not sit well! I explained to the sweet young lady on the phone that I felt it was important that we go ahead and pull this fluid as soon as possible...I have already waited a week and did not feel that waiting another week was what I needed (or wanted) to do. She agreed and promised she would talk with Dr. V and get back with me. I did not have to wait too long to hear from Dr. V. He called me and assured me that he wanted me to have this done asap and that he was calling to get me in with another facility tomorrow.

I got the call and he told me it was on for tomorrow at Brookwood, 11 am. I was so excited and began to make plans. Well, that was short lived! He called me back and told me that Brookwood had called him and the original day/time was not a "true time." What in the world does that mean? Well, for me it means that I will not be going tomorrow for the procedure.

I am scheduled, however for my Spinal Tap to be completed on Monday, October 3, 10:30 am at Brookwood Hospital. I am trying to help myself remember to take deep breaths!!

I was out and about when I received these calls, so all the way back to the office I rode in silence and listened for God. I've been doing a lot of that lately. All I keep hearing was my voice repeat over and over, "God's timing is perfect!" At this point, other than His love and faithfulness, that is what I am clinging to! So, for now we wait! We pray! And we listen!

I know for sure that He is protecting me. I know for sure that He has me in His hands. I know for sure He only wants what is best for me and oh how he loves me!

For those of you who know me, know that waiting has not always been the thing that I am the best at. I tend to get impatient and try to rush things. God is teaching me some valuable life lessons. Please pray that I fully rely on Him to guide me (and James) through this process. Prayer requests remain the same from yesterday's post (see below). Please know that I am thankful for each of you who read this and pray!

Until next time...

We Have A Day!

2011-09-27T16:28:00.004-05:00

After much waiting, I received the call today that my Spinal Tap (LP), will be done on Thursday. James and I will travel to Birmingham on Thursday morning and meet with the Dr. and his "study" team at 9:00 am. The girls from the team will escort me over for the LP once a series of tests and paperwork are completed.

It is one thing to talk and pray about having this procedure done, but to know of a set day and time makes this all too real. I have been kind of surprised at how calm I have been through all of this (I know it is because you all are praying). I just pray that the same sense of calm stays with me.

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement, the flowers, phone calls just to check on me, but most importantly your prayers. You will never know how you have touched me. There are not enough words to express my gratitude to each of you! I consider each of you blessings from above. Please know that my life is richer because of you!

Many have asked how I feel. Most days I feel good. The headaches seem to have slacked off and do not occur daily. For this I am grateful! I have a lot of days where I just seem to be sluggish and want to be lazy. I am ready to feel like myself all of the time! James and Evan need for me to be myself! Today has been a great day! I have had energy and have been very productive (I know Dr. Troglen (my boss) is thankful for that). I praise the Lord for days like today!

People ask what the headaches are like. They really are not too bad, not like you would think. They just drain the energy from me. The most frustrating part is that they originate right behind my eyeballs and are constant. The good thing is, they usually subside by noon or early afternoon! Another answered prayer and for this I am so thankful!

I am not sure if Dr. V will place me on the medication or not Thursday. He may wait and see what the LP results show. The LP is being done to measure the amount of pressure in the spinal fluid. I am hoping that with the removal of this fluid, I will begin to feel normal once again.

James and I have talked about it and prayed over it and I have decided to allow them to use my information for the study. With that, comes the chance that the medication they give me is simply a placebo. That scares me a little. The study is being conducted to determine if weight loss alone will help reduce the effects of Pseudotumor Cerebri (PC) or if the medication is needed as well. We will all be placed on the weight loss program, given a weight loss person (that's what I need-someone to hold me accountable) and will all meet with the physician regularly. My only concern is what if I am not placed on the medication and my symptoms get worse. That is one thing I am going to discuss with Dr. V Thursday. Surely they will make a change if they see that things are not improving.

We are looking at being on this medication for one full year. They have told me there is NO way I can become pregnant with this medication because of the side effects it would have on a growing fetus. I don't understand God's timing, but I know and am trusting that it is perfect. He has taken care of me so far, I know He is not going to fail me now! While I don't fully understand, because for those of you who know me, know having babies is what I dream of, I simply must TRUST!

I know without a shadow of a doubt that God has me in this place for a reason. Do I know why? Nope! But I know He is faithful and able. Oh how He loves me! He created and formed me. He saved me! He loves me!

Please pray that we will have safe travels Thursday. Please lift up Dr. V and his staff. I am not sure if Dr. V will perform the LP or not, so say a special prayer for the one performing the procedure (I really hope they will only have to stick me once). Please pray that God will wrap his arms around us and calm any fears that may arise. Please pray for those who sit and wait on the Dr. to say "We are done and all went well." Sometime waiting is the hardest part.

I have the most awesome prayer warriors! I love you dearly!

Until next time...

Ask And Ye Shall Receive!

2011-09-23T10:02:00.003-05:00

"Cast all your cares upon him; for he careth for you." 1Peter 5:7

It brings such joy to know that I can go before the Lord and make my requests known and He will listen and answer them in His perfect time. Thank you so much for those of you who have lifted James and me in prayer this week. Your prayers have been felt and praise the Lord they have been answered!

James, my mom, Shelby and I traveled to Birmingham yesterday morning-not really sure what we were to face. The staff at the Callahan Eye Foundation were so helpful and nice. That was answered prayer number one!! After a series of testing (normal eye exam, checked my eye pressure, field test, neurological test), Dr. Vaphiades (Dr. V) confirmed the diagnosis from Dr. Parma. Pseduotumor Cerebri. We talked over causes...they are not really sure what causes it and we talked about a treatment plan (this is where I started to get a little nervous). Dr. V feels like we caught this early enough that with some weight loss (isn't everything related to our weight, ladies?!), only 10-15 pounds, and a medication that I would be ok. Answered prayer number 2!!

I will have to undergo a lumbar puncture (spinal tap) sometime in the near future (waiting to hear from them...thinking next week), which will let them know how much pressure is in my spinal fluid. There will be some travel back and forth to Birmingham, but we will work it all out!

Dr. V did tell us yesterday that there is no way I can be pregnant and take the needed medication, so that was a little disheartening. Lord knows I want a sibling for Evan! I must remember that in His timing all is made perfect! For now, we make sure that I get better and we deal with the rest as it comes. He will provide the strength I need on the days when it gets hard.

There is a study being conducted on this that they are anxious for me to take part in. We are still praying over this decision.

On to the prayer requests: Please pray that the spinal fluid will give the doctors the answers that they need and that I only have to be stuck once (that last one may seem minor, but have you ever laid your eyes on those needles??). #2, please pray that the weight will continue to come off at a healthy pace and that I will be able to do what is needed to support a healthy diet (basically self control...I LOVE to eat!!). #3, please pray that there will be few side effects from the medication and that those that I must endure will be slight bumps in the road for everyday functioning- I do have a 3 year old to take care of!! :) #4, please pray that James will be understanding on the days when I just don't feel too good. He has been so good to help me when I have needed it (bad headache days). He is my helper! I don't know how I'd make it without him! And lastly #5, please lift up my family, especially my parents. It is hard for them with us being 1 1/2 hrs. from them. They can't see me every day and know that I am ok. That makes it difficult for them.

Thank you prayer warriors for your unending love and support! I know that ALL things are possible with God and this is just a little something that I must endure. He is FAITHFUL and oh how He loves me! We could have received more disturbing news than this yesterday! God is good! I am trusting that God will make His path known...I then must have the faith to follow!

Until next time...

Today Is A New Day!

2011-09-20T16:41:00.003-05:00

I have had last night and most of the day today to process what I was told yesterday... Pseudotumor Cerebri. HUM...well, as I told someone today, with everything new, comes fear of the unknown, but I know one thing for sure...God is holding me in His hands. James and I are prepared for what we will hear Thursday morning (as much as we can be, I suppose). I have read about causes (not really any sure answers on this) and I have read about treatments (some more scary than others). We just wait and see what the Dr. says and then we go from there!

I ask that you join me in prayer! Please pray for the physician and staff members that we will meet Thursday. Pray that they will exude great bedside manner and that our fears may be calmed by working with them. Pray that we will have open ears to hear the good, bad and ugly and that we will be able to handle the news delivered...whatever that may be. I pray that will see Jesus through us! Please pray for our families. As you can imagine, they are worried.

I have had some headaches today and some vision stuff, but there has been a little stress added to my life, so I think it could be a combination of it all. Mornings seem to be worse than afternoons.

God began a work in my life 29 years ago. He has a plan and He is not finished with me yet! He allowed so many people in my life that have provided words of encouragment, support and most importantly those who have loved me through it all! At the age of 16, when epilepsy struck, His love and faithfulness proved strong and true. At the age of 25 when we struggled to have a baby, once again, His faithfulness was what got me through and here we are at age 29. I expect nothing less than His greatest strength and power to prevail. He is strong! He is mighty! He is my Lord!

I have come to relize that it does me no good to try to control situations (for those of you who know me, know that is a HUGE statement). I cannot control what is to happen, it is in God's hands, I can only control my response! I am determined that through it all, He will be glorified. For now, we pray and we wait.

Until next time...

So Much To Say...

2011-09-06T16:47:00.007-05:00

My mind and heart are so full! Where do I begin...

We went on vacation with the family (LeVerts) back at the end of July and had the best time. Evan LOVES the beach and the pool (maybe the pool a little more than the beach), but at any rate, he is a great beach baby. He was such a trooper and just went along for whatever the family wanted to do. He actually cried a little when we told him we had to come back home. That's my boy!! In case you didn't know, the beach is my all time favorite place to be! I always enjoy spending time with the family...my favorite people in the world...maybe next year we can stay longer than a week!

We celebrated Evan's 3rd birthday on August 27, (His birthday is the 28th) with an alligator themed birthday party...where does he come up with these things?? It ended up being pretty cute, if I do say so myself! It is so hard to believe that my little boy is already 3! Where has the time gone? Sometimes I wish I could just bottle it all up and put it on a shelf and save for a rainy day...then I think of all the great things I would miss out on. I love it that he is able to talk to me now...not just 'yes' or 'no,' but he is able to have real conversations with me! It is the best. I love it that he is curious. He wants to know why things work and how. He wants to know about when he was a baby (he always says "I was sssoo tiny" and "I was ssooo cute!"), but most importantly, he wants to know about Jesus. He loves to talk about Jesus and I love that! I hope that he will always have that intensity about Him.

God is so good and He never ceases to amaze me. When trouble comes along, He is always there to pick you up and shine a ray of hope. There is always a silver lining to any situation. Back before we went to the beach, I went for a yearly eye exam (mainly so I could get more contacts!!ha), and the Dr. noticed that my optic nerves were swollen...both of them. She told me she wanted to recheck them in 6-8 weeks. She mentioned there could be something growing causing pressure on the nerves. We left it at that and said "See you in a couple of weeks." Over the next 6 weeks or so, I began to notice headaches, primarily in the mornings, but was unsure if they were "all in my head" or really something to worry about.

I went in for my check-up on September 9, and was told that one optic nerve looks better, but the other is about the same. Dr. Holman decided to order an MRI so that we could rule out a tumor. Wow, a tumor! Imagine hearing those words! I immediately thought about Evan. I have a three year old and a husband who need me (James would probably say he'd be just fine without me-but we all know differently!). After talking with James and deciding that we would rather keep this to ourselves and immediate family, I called my parents to fill them in on what was going on and what was next. I know they were concerned, but thank goodness they played it cool while talking with me! Per our request, they vowed to keep this to themselves and not share it with everyone, which I know was difficult for them because we are a praying family. There was just something about this that I wanted kept between us...hard to explain. No need for everyone to worry until there is something to worry about!

On September 15, I leave work for the MRI. On the way there, I call to make sure I know where I am going and come to find out they can't do the scan that day. I fall to pieces. This is the first time I have shed a tear over any of this. I had held myself together well and had confidence that all was fine until that very moment. In a need to hear that everything was going to be ok, I called Dr. Holman (my opthomologist-?sp) to hear her tell me just that. Sadly, she could not give me that reassurance, but she did tell me that she wanted the scan done that day so she would call me back. God had a plan! Dr. Holman called back within 2 minutes with a new location for my scan. She told me to be on my way and she would call me back as soon as she knew something.

God knew I needed the people at HealthScan in Montgomery, Alabama. They made me feel at ease and I can not tell you how many references to the Lord I hear while I was there. He is real in their lives and they call upon Him in times of need...I witnessed that first hand! I have no doubt I was where I needed to be! Praise the Lord for the other appointment falling through. I also am thankful for the meltdown I was able to have in the Ruby Tuesday parking lot. I needed to let myself cry...that does not show weakness...it shows surrender! I was giving it to the Lord at that very moment!

James was there for me to cry on and I am so thankful! He does not always know what to say (does anyone when faced with something like this?) but he knows I just need him to be there. He is my strong tower...even when he does not realize it!

Friday morning around 8:45 I got the call from Dr. Holman. Of course my cell did not want to function, so we had to play phone tag but when we were able to talk she assured me there was not growth! PRAISE THE LORD! She read the report so I could hear it the way it was reported. No words have ever sounded so good! She did tell me there was reason to believe there was abnormal brain fluid that needed to be looked at and there were a variety of reasons that could be there. She told me I needed to see a specialist at Retina Specialist of Alabama on Monday.

Monday morning (today) I go in to meet with Dr. Parma. He is great! He met with me, assessed my eyes, looked over the MRI and spoke with another physician. He came in, talked with me about what he felt was going on and answered my questions. He even took the time to re-examine my eyes to make sure there is no evidence of RP (an eye disease that my dad has).

So...my diagnosis is Psedotumor Cerebri. This is an increase in spinal fluid on the brain. I am not sure of the cause, that may be something that we never know, but I do know that it is not related to my epilepsy or the meds that I have to take for the epilepsy. We will go to meet with a neurosurgeon Thursday morning at 8am in Birmingham. I am sure we will hear more information than we ever dreamed we would need to know then.

My prayer through all of this (since July) has been that James and I (and the family) would be able to handle what news was delivered. I have said since this all began that we can't change the outcomes of the tests, we can only control how we handle it all. It is all going to be fine. Jesus has me in His hand. He is the ultimate healer and oh how he loves me! My prayer is for my family, my friends and all those I will encounter in the coming days, that they see Jesus through me and my unfailing faith in Him.

God is good...ALL the time...God is good!

Heather

The Love of My Life!

2011-07-22T10:53:00.003-05:00

Evan LOVES to go to "Miss Amy's" and play with his friends every day. It rained a good bit this week, so they had to find ways to keep everyone busy and happy, so shaving cream it is!! Now, Evan is not one that likes to be extremely dirty, all of the time...so he was not too sure about it this time, but it looks like he had a great time once he finally "dug in!"

The face that makes my heart flutter!

I can't help but wonder if he really knows how much he is loved?!

That's my baby boy!!

Evan brings our family so much joy-his laugh is contagious! It is hard to have a bad day when you get to love on this little man. I love to sit and watch him with James. Their relationship has really blossomed over the past year and I guess some of that is due to Evan's growing older and being able to communicate better with us. Who knew a little one would make your heart so full?! I guess all I had to do was ask any Mommy!!

I find myself riding in the car without the radio on a lot here lately. My thoughts are filled with (1) things that need to be done, but (2) and most importantly, the way(s) my life is blessed. God has given me wonderful parents and a great family, an amazing husband (who here lately has decided to spoil me), a beautiful son, fantastic friends, an awesome job (that I actually like going to each day), the chance to explore photography (which I love) and of course, His son!! My heart is so full!

The Lord has really used our Sunday school class over the past several weeks to speak to my heart and open my eyes. I find myself really thinking (throughout the week) about the things we discuss in class. Our Sunday school teacher asked us last week "Why as Christian's is God's love not enough?" WOW! That will make you stop and think!! Would you or are you ready to give up everything material, to prove that God's love is enough? Is that really what He calls us to do? "Jesus loves me this I know..." Do I show Him how I love him so?? All I really want is for the Lord to be pleased with the life that I lead. I want my friends to know that when they come to me, we WILL go before the Lord together with the issues at hand. I want my family to be proud of the God-fearing woman they raised and I want my Lord to be pleased with His servant. This is my daily prayer!

So, it seems that this blog may have taken more of a serious turn...I hope you don't mind hearing the things heavy on my heart. I guess it just helps to process by writing it all down. Have a great week filled with many blessings!

Until next time...

Long Time, No Post!

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I did not realize how long it had been since my last post! SO much has happened over the past year!!

Updates on Evan:
Evan has grown so much over the past year. He has learned so much and teaches James and me something new every single day!! He is staying with "Miss Amy" while James and I work and he has loved every minute! He has made such great little friends. They seem to have a lot of fun every day. At Evan's two year appointment, he weighed 31 pounds--a growing boy! We are quickly approaching his third birthday and I can not believe it! Where has the time gone? It seems like just yesterday we were planning to bring this sweet little thing home and now he is FILLED with his own opinions! We are getting together an alligator party this year...this should be eventful! Do you know how difficult it is to find alligator stuff??? Anyway, Evan is doing great and looking forward to being 3---but am I??

James and Me:
We are doing great! Work is going well for both of us and we stay busy with church activities. We are currently looking for land or a bigger house. We would love to expand the Talley family, however that is just not possible in our current home!! We need another bedroom! It makes me a little sad to think about leaving this house, we have put so much into it! We picked out colors, the floor plan, and James built an amazing fence! Not to mention our pond in the backyard! If only there was room to add on!
I turned 29 this year and along came gray hairs! I really thought I would be ok with it, but boy was I wrong! I made myself an appointment, got a new hair-do and some highlights! Thanks Mary!!
I started a photography business this past March, Touch of Talley Photography, and it is going well. I love every session and it makes me smile to capture sweet moments for families. I am so thankful God has provided this opportunity.

Pete:
'Ole Pete is still with us and is finding new ways to put up with Evan every day. They really do get a long well...as long as he does what Evan wants!! haha We do love our Pete!

There is so much more I could say, but I guess this will do for now! I vow to update more. I see a change coming for our blog...MY BLESSINGS ARE MANY...MY HEART IS FULL!!

From Superman to Spaghetti- Enjoy!

2010-06-24T22:05:00.002-05:00

Here are some random pictures of us. Hope you enjoy!!

Evan is growing so much each and every day. He is learning more and more and

amazes us with his whit and charm. He is smarter than I ever remember being-

And he is pretty darn cute- if I say so myself!! He is our little bundle of JOY!!

Thanks Uncle John and Aunt Michelle for my Superman outfit!

We love and miss you two!

Perfect landing....right on Mama!!

What is not to love about these two faces???

Chocolate Chip Pancakes are a favorite around out house!

Here are the pictures...

yes, and....

wanting to see his picture...

Now here's the story: We were having a hard time getting Evan to eat

(he was going through a growing phase and did not want to eat...weird, I know) so

James decided to teach Evan "how the piggies eat." Of course, it would be with

spaghetti. What a mess!! He would even get the snorts in here and there.

Now, James and Evan both figured out that this was NOT one of my most favorite things

for them to do, so occasionally, Evan will start to do it all on his own- no prompting needed.

Thanks, James!!

So far we are good and he has not tried this out in public...I am just waiting on the day!

I must admit, it did make for pretty cute pictures!!

Birthday Celebrations...

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Happy Birthday Amber!!

Thank you for inviting us to your party! We had a great time!!

We love you bunches!!

Watch out Uncle Heath!!

Amber, Evan and Me

We had a BLAST at our friend Wade's birthday party!
We were at Pump It Up (a.k.a. germ city) and Evan loved every minute!

He thought he was just as big as the other boys!

The great staff pulled this out for Evan and he thought it was great!

My Little Pitcher!

I tell you what, this was a workout! Those steps were killer!!

But, we made it up & down! It was so much fun!

Playing a little more B-Ball...

Giving his Mama Sweet Evan kisses!!!

Love'em!

Thanks Wade for inviting us to your party! We had a great time!

We love you!!

Happy Valentines Day!!! Valentine's Day 2010

2010-06-24T20:55:00.005-05:00

The Little Love of My Life!!
My Two Fellas!!

Evan and His Mama

Evan was enjoying his Valentine's Morning Chocolate Chip Pancakes.

They looked pretty good, huh?

Valentine's Day is always so special to me because that is my dear Granny's birthday!

We love and miss her very much!!

Snow Days and Random Pics

2010-06-17T22:02:00.007-05:00

It snowed and we had a blast. Evan was not so sure of it at first, but then once it was
time to go in he pitched a fit-both days! He was so bundled up, it was hard for him to get
around. We had a lot of fun building our snowman, even if we couldn't make it very large.
Enjoy the memories!!

He had fallen and couldn't get up and instead of being a good mommy and helping,
I took a picture! :)

All bundled up! Notice the boggin' is none other than Spongebob!

He was mad because we wanted a picture and he wanted to get down and play!

Just my little man and me. One of my favs of us together.

It's a bird, It's a plane....NO! It's SUPER-EVAN!
Sorry it is not right side up...

I had always heard people talk about their children falling asleep while eating...
It was a PJ day around the house and I was busy putting away dishes while he was having lunch,
I thought it was too quiet, so I turned and found Evan like this....
I guess we had played extra hard that morning. Too cute!

Screaming because he can't get his feet to go where he wants them to go.
Wonder Why???
Those are some mighty big shoes to fill, Little Man!

Evan attempted to put his boots on all by himself.
He must wear these shoes with shorts, with jeans, or with just his diaper!
I have a country boy at heart!

Smile and Say CHEEZE!! Evan LOVES his Aunt Pam!!

One day while playing in his room, it got really quiet (for those who don't know, that means trouble!!) so I popped my head in to see what was going on and I found Evan perched on top of the twin bed in his room. At this point we did not know that Evan could climb that high, so please imagine my surprise. I did run and grab the camera for a pic before I told him to get down and explained that this was not a play space. Think it did any good? Nope! It is still one of his most favorite places to climb and look at books!!

Don't know what was going on here. I do know we were watching Alabama play for the
National Championship! Roll Tide!

Going to watch the Tide Roll!

Mrs. Kristi and Wade gave Evan this cow for his 1st birthday. He lovingly refers to him as "Moo-Moo." Evan sleeps with Moo-Moo each and every night!

Showing Nana he can eat with a spoon

Christmas for the 4 of Us

2010-06-17T21:46:00.004-05:00

We waited and had "Santa" Christmas at our house late Christmas Day. Really and truly, Evan did not know the difference. We had a great time. It was so much fun to watch Evan this year. He found a lot more excitement in watching everyone else get so excited over what they got.
He is a hoot! Hope you enjoy the pictures!

Christmas with the Families and Other Winter Pics

2010-06-17T20:09:00.008-05:00

Christmas 2009
We had a lot of fun and did some things a little nontraditional.
We had Christmas with the Talleys before Christmas,
We spent Christmas Eve night at my parents and did Christmas with them
Christmas morning, then traveled home to have Christmas with just the 4 of us.
We had a great time and made a lot of new memories.
Along with the laughter and fun came some sorrow as this was our first Christmas without Granny. Man did she know how to have a good time. She may be gone, but she will NEVER be forgotten. Love to you!!

Merry Christmas from the Talleys!

Evan really enjoyed his drums from the Wallaces.
They have somehow managed to stay at Nana's but
oh does he LOVE to bang on them when we visit!!

Apparently something was REALLY funny to Evan! :)

Play time with Daddy!

He loved his goodies in his stocking. This reindeer is still in his room!

Pete checking out his loot at Nana and Big Daddy's house

Christmas morning at Nana and Big Daddy's

There is a first time for everything! The lights went out during our Christmas Eve
celebration at mama and daddy's house with the LeVert clan. We went one by
one and opened presents by candlelight. It was different to say the least! Ah, memories!!

My "little" brother, Heath and me

E loves his Uncle Tim!

All the grands, great-grand and grandpup

Outdoors at Bass Pro Shop after having his picture made with Santa.
His daddy was trying to convince me this was on his wish list....

Christmas with the Talleys

Evan loved all of his new goodies.
Thank you Mimi and Papa for the music set.
The drums have brought A LOT of heavenly sounds to our home!!!

Sweet friends Laura Beth and Jenn with me at our Christmas Party.

I forgot to flip before I posted, sorry!

(Above) One of my most favorite pictures of James and me. I love him oh so much!
(Below) We were trying to get a good shot for our Christmas pictures. This was one of the cutest ones of Evan and Pete together. They are sweet together!

Evan was checking out the ducks on the pond behind our house. He loves to be outside.

Here he is just hanging out and being silly.

Go ahead and say it...AAAWWW!
Thats what I said when I took it. One of my favs of my two boys!

Out and About

2010-03-01T22:51:00.004-06:00

Saturday, we took Evan to the park. We had lunch and then we played for a while. It was so much fun. He LOVES to be outside (gets that from his daddy)!! He did not want to leave and fussed at us...ok, screamed at us as we took him back to the car. As soon as we got home, he conked out. He had played so hard. I can't wait for some warmer weather so we can make the park a weekly outing. Enjoy the pictures!

He thinks he is so big...

Loving the outdoors!
Look Mama! No Hands!!

Eating lunch (no real picnic food, we stopped by Hardees)

The little man who makes my heart melt...
It seems so hard to believe that Evan is already 18 months old. Time sure goes by quickly. Evan is learning more and more each and every day. He is now able to recognize people and call them by their chosen names (mommy, daddy, big daddy, nana, nanny, mimi and papa). He loves balls and his "big brother" Pete. He loves to eat his veggies, but is not so keen on meat. I guess I should be thankful. He is into everything and running to get everywhere. He loves to climb. He enjoys reading with me and watching Spongebob with his daddy. His smile lights up a room and his kisses melt my heart. His favorite word is "NO!" Thanks to Aunt Pam and Maci!

He has a gentle spirit, a love for others and a cute sense of humor. He makes me smile when he makes faces like his daddy and he tickles my heart when he sings "bye oh baby" with Nanny (this is a song she made up and has shared with all of the grands). He is a true joy!

It is my prayer that he will always know how much he is loved and that God has great plans for His life. I pray that He will always follow Christ and stand firm in his faith in Him. I never knew being a mom would be so great....maybe it is the baby boy I hold in my arms that makes it oh so special!!

Evan's One Year Photos

2009-12-30T22:47:00.005-06:00

Finally! We are back in business! Now, I should be able to catch everyone up with what all has been going on with us! These are some of the pictures from Evan's one year photo shoot. We actually did one-where he would not smile like he usually does, so our wonderful photographer met us earlier this month and took some additional shots. He did great that day. Of course, it was 30 degrees and I had him dressed in linen...oh, well! He didn't get sick and the pictures turned out great.

Evan is bringing more and more joy to our lives each and every day. I am not working right now, so I am enjoying being home with him. It has been so much fun watching his milestones develop. His little personality has really bloomed! He is such a ham. He loves to give hugs and kisses, which makes me a very happy mommy! His smile makes me melt and he knows it. Not only does he know it, he uses it!! He has learned early! haha

he was getting a little sleepy on us...

my little climber doing what he does best...

More fun things to come...please check back soon!

We hope you all had a wonderful Christmas!!

Beach Pictures

2009-11-09T20:29:00.009-06:00

Here are a few pictures from our family vacation this past July. It is taking forever just to upload one picture, so it may take me several days (weeks) to catch up. Please keep checking the blog for updates.

We had such a good time at the beach. Evan loved the sand...I think I got my wish for a beach baby! I am so excited for the summers to come as we return to make more memories with our little man. Enjoy the pics!

The Talley Trio

The smile that melts my heart...

"E" loves his Uncle Heath

Evan and His MaddiMae

MaBug and Evan

Evan's First Beach Trip

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LeVert Family photo from the beach

Left-Right: Nana, Aunt Pam, Nanny, Maci, Me, Madison

Big Daddy, Uncle Heath, Evan and Daddy (James)

We had such a great time...Evan's first beach trip!!

Don't know what the trouble is...

2009-10-12T23:23:00.002-05:00

I have tried and tried to update the blog, but have had so much trouble. As soon as I can, I will post pictures of all that has been happening. Evan had his 1st birthday back in August and what fun we had. He is walking and in to everything. He is a climber, so I have to watch him at all times! He is learning more words and you can tell he is really paying attention to what we say and the tone we are using...which is kinda scary!! :) He is learning so much and his personality is precious!! I can't wait to get some pictures up so you all can see how much he has changed over the past several months.

James and I are doing well. Staying busy. More to come! We love you all! Please keep checking back, I will keep trying to post!

Trying to Update

2009-09-07T21:25:00.003-05:00

I have been working on trying to update the page for some time. I am having real troubles. I will keep trying, there are so many new pictures I want to add. There are some from Evan's Baby Dedication, James' birthday, our anniversary and of course the Big 1st Birthday celebration. Please keep checking back. I hope the problem is resolved soon!!

Take care!

Long Time, No Post

2009-08-09T19:48:00.004-05:00

Sorry for the long time between posts, things have been busy around the Talley house! For some reason our computer has been weird tonight, so I will try to post again tomorrow night and catch everyone up. This picture is from Evan's Baby Dedication. We had such a great time with family and friends. More details to come. Also, check back for Evan's 1st beach trip pictures! We had a great time, Evan LOVED the beach! It is so hard to believe that our little man will be one in just a couple of weeks. Planning is in full swing.

Happy Birthday America!!

2009-07-07T11:04:00.003-05:00

We celebrated the 4th with friends for a grilled hamburger/ hotdog dinner and then fireworks over the Coosa River. I thought Evan would scream when the fireworks began, but he really seemed to enjoy them. We had a wonderful day together!

Here we are, the Talley Trio!

Before the fireworks, Evan was asleep on James. It was WAY past his bedtime!!
After the first BOOM....Evan woke up!!

Watching the fireworks light up the sky! WOW!!!

They were beautiful this year.

I was trying to get a sweet picture with my little man and he couldn't take his eyes off the sky!

Growing Older...Does it Get Easier???

2009-07-07T10:52:00.004-05:00

To start our wonderful weekend together, James and Evan took me out to eat Friday night for my birthday. I chose Outback and it was SSSOOO good! Thanks James and Evan for making my night so special! You are two of the most special and important men in my life. I can't imagine growing older with anyone other than you guys! I love you so very much!!!

Say CHEEZE.....

Evan giving me sweet birthday kisses! He has the best sugar ever!!!

I know you all remember back in the day when taking pictures with your "special someone" in the car....well, James and I had not taken one since we were dating, so we decided Friday night was as good a time as any!! haha

(I don't look a day older than 21, RIGHT???!!!)

Evan helped me open my present. He and James bought me Wii Fit. I had been saying I wanted one. Now, I have to put it to use. I am sure it is gonna kick my hind end!!!

James was singing "Happy Birthday" to me in this ridiculously loud, off key voice and this is what Evan thought about it....

TOO FUNNY!!!

My beautiful cake that James made for me. It was a 3 layer key lime cake with cream cheese icing. Mmmm, Mmmm, Good!! Thanks again James for taking the time to bake me a wonderful cake. It was fabulous!

Henry Turns 2!

2009-07-07T10:34:00.006-05:00

On June 27th, we celebrated Henry's 2nd birthday with food, fun and WATER!! We had a great time in the sun! Thanks Henry for inviting us to your birthday party. We hope you had as much fun as we did! We love you!!!

Evan and the birthday boy, Henry

I think he was trying to convince James he needed to go back to playing in the water...

Feeling it out...
He was not so sure he wanted to be in the water!

There's the smile we all love so much!!

Evan was unsure about the slip and slide, but his daddy and I enjoyed watching him on it!!!

Time for LUNCH!

Look at that hair....

Enjoying his first ever cake...it was chocolate and oh so good! His daddy slipped him a little ice cream while I was not looking. He loved it all so much, he had a bit of a fit when it was all gone.

Playing with Robo!

2009-07-07T10:22:00.001-05:00

While shopping in Target several weeks ago, James found this Robot gadget that he said "Evan needed." We got it and Evan LOVES it. It will play music and dance so Evan has to dance a long with it. He likes to chase it around the living room. Pete is scared to death of this thing. It brings lots of laughter to the Talley home!!

10 months old already!!

2009-06-26T13:02:00.008-05:00

WARNING: This post is FILLED with pictures!!

It is so hard to believe that Evan will be 10 months old in 2 days!! It seems like just yesterday we found out we were expecting!! His birthday supplies came in the mail yesterday! WOW! Almost 1!!! These pictures are from his 9 month shoot. Leslie did a great job (as always). She always captures the faces I love the most! Evan did a great job and the weather was beautiful! My little man is growing too fast! Daddy was busy working in the yard, but Evan and I were able to get a couple of shots together. ENJOY!!

Our serious look...

What a sweet smile!

To know him is to love him!

One of my favorites...

Mommy's Pride and Joy...

Yard Progress

2009-06-26T12:46:00.004-05:00

Quick story...

Last night, Evan and I were outside watching James "smoosh" the rocks into place by walking on them. When he finished, Evan was itching to get down. He loves to walk with you holding his hands, so of course that was what he was wanting. As soon as I put him down, he headed right for the flower beds. He stepped over the pavers and into the rocks. He was so funny picking his feet up and down "smooshing" the rocks like his daddy. It makes you really think about them watching everything we do and wanting to be a lot like us. My prayer is that he will see his daddy and me loving and serving Jesus every day.

It is so funny to see how things can really transform with a lot of hard work (mostly thanks to James!!). Here is a picture of our house the December after we moved in...

And this was taken last night. What a difference a new tree, new plants and shrubs and some rocks can do! It looks a lot better from the curb now!!My annuals that I am so proud of...they are not dead yet!! haha

Our tree in the front yard. I thought it was supposed to have blooms...

still no sign of flowers yet!

Gotta add a few more rocks...

Our beautiful Japanese Red Maple

This tree was little when we got it. I love to watch the leaves change colors.

James did such a good job on this walkway. I think it turned out beautiful!

Now, on to the back yard!!!

Father's Day 2009

2009-06-24T13:09:00.005-05:00

James,

I can not tell you how much you mean to me. Watching you fall in love with Evan more and more each day is such a blessing. He adores you. I can see it in his smile and hear it in his laugh. Because of you, our family is complete. Thank you for being you, for loving Evan and me the way you do, for providing and protecting us. We could not ask for a better leader for our home. You are a treasure and I love you very much! I hope your first Father's Day was one you will always remember! Hugs and Kisses Forever and Always!!

To the most wonderful daddy a girl could ask for: I hope your Father's Day was filled with lots of happiness and memories you can hold on to forever. I am so glad we were able to come see and spend some quality time with you! You are the best! We love you so much!!!
The kiddos and Daddy

Evan LOVES Big Daddy!!

Evan thought it was a lot of fun to help his daddy open his presents!

"From the first day I was here, it was easy to see, you are the most perfect Daddy for me!" -How sweet!!

Evan in his daddy's tie...

Big Daddy and his loot...

We're Off To Centreville...

2009-06-24T12:57:00.005-05:00

Evan had his first experience with Chinese Cuisine this past weekend. James gave him one of the crispy things that you put in the soup and he loved it. He will try anything once!!

This was taken during Evan's first road trip in Big Daddy's new truck. He loved it! Nana jokes and says this is "Evan's truck!"
At Logan's Saturday night. He liked the crayons. Remember me saying that Evan will try anything at least once? We already knew he is a fan of lemons, so of course he had some of Nana's lemon, then James decided he needed to try onion, that's right, onion. Guess what? He actually liked it!!!

Daddy and his little man!!

Mommy and her sweet angel!

As soon as I put Evan to bed at Mama and Daddy's he had to show me that he is a big boy...up on those knees he went, laughing and talking to me!!!

Uncle Heath and Amber

We had a great time with you guys this weekend. It was fun to spend the night with Big Daddy, Nana and Uncle Heath. We missed being able to see Aunt Pam, Uncle Tim and the girls. We are so glad you went to eat with us Nanny and we are so glad we got to meet Amber. There is never a dull moment with Mr. Mike and Mrs. Betty!! We are counting down the days until we head south!!!! We love you all SO much!!

Happy Birthday and Father's Day Papa!

2009-06-24T12:38:00.004-05:00

Mr. Joe's birthday always falls around or on Father's Day. This year, we celebrated both with him on Friday night. We had a great time talking with them and watching Evan play. He painted his Papa a picture for his birthday. He did a really good job. This was a project he and his daddy did together. James stripped him down, put him in the bathtub with watercolors and a canvas and there you go, Evan's first masterpiece!!! Papa loved it!! Happy Birthday and Father's Day!!!!

We love you!

Give the boy a box and he could play for hours!!

Evan's new thing is to hold out his arms and reach for you. Not really to be picked up, but so he can walk around holding to your hands. He was wanting his Mimi in this picture.

Evan likes his rocking chair at Mimi and Papa's.

He's such a big boy!!

Hippo Pool Time!

2009-06-16T11:43:00.003-05:00

Our Sweet Water Baby!!!

"I don't know about this..."

"Maybe it's ok..."

Can you say torture? All James and I could do was laugh!!!

Evan's Big Boy Carseat!

2009-06-16T11:38:00.003-05:00

Evan has been upgraded from his infant carrier to his "new ride!" He is such a big boy!! He seemed to really like it. He snuggles in and takes good naps. This one will take us until Evan is 100 lbs. It will be nice to have when we have to go on long trips (like to the beach in a couple of weeks). It seems really comfy!! It has a really cute circle pattern on it too (which was important to me as well, hehe).

Evan's First Vacation Bible School

2009-06-16T11:31:00.002-05:00

Evan attended his first VBS last week at our home church (FBC Wetumpka). Family night was Friday night and it was a lot of fun. Evan had the best time watching the kids sing and dance on the stage. When the music would start he would tap his legs with his hands and "sing." It was so cute. People in the audience were turning to watch him. He is a show-stopper!!!!

2 Doctor Visits in 1 Day!

2009-06-08T12:09:00.005-05:00

This past Friday, Evan had 2 appointments in one day. We started the morning with Dr. Trumbull for his 9 month check up. Evan weighed in at 20.8 lbs (40%) and was 28 1/2 inches tall (60%). Dr. Trumbull was very pleased with how Evan is progressing and said that he seems to be a very healthy and happy baby. We will start this week taking formula from his sippy during lunch. Laura Beth has been great and has already been doing this some. He seems to have transitioned just fine. He does not seem to care where it comes from, just as long as he gets it!! HAHA! Since Evan is not crawling on his knees- nor showing ANY interest in doing so- Dr.Trumbull is not sure he will walk by one. We will see!

Our 2nd appointment was with Dr. Elsas- a pediatric opthamologist at Children's in Birmingham. I was a little concerned about his eye that tends to turn in. After Dr.Elsas' assessment, he feels that Evan is just fine. Because he has a wide bridged nose, it causes the illusion that his eye turns it. He says that as he grows it should become less noticeable. Evan was a trooper all day!

After his long day, we decided to let him go to Nana and Big Daddy's house for the weekend. They had been asking for him for so long, but James and I could not bear the thought of him being away from us (78 miles) overnight. We are so glad that we let him go. It was good for Evan, for us and for the grandparents. They had a ball!

Evan showed James and me that he knows how to throw a temper tantrum! That's right...kicking legs, stomping feet, throwing his head back and forth and SCREAMING! This was the first time we had witnessed this, so all we could do was laugh, which seemed to make his even more mad! We thought it was funny! Where do they learn to throw such fits??

James and Evan catching up on baby proofing your house!! haha

Having lunch before seeing Dr. Elsas

This was our attempt to keep Evan entertained while we waited for his eyes to dilate.

We had to wait in a dark room while his eyes dilated.

Waiting on Dr. Elsas, the Opthamologist

Looking at himself in the mirror on the elevator door.

Checking out the cow at Children's Hospital

Evan was all smiles knowing he was going to Nana and Big Daddy's for the weekend!

Headed to Centreville...

Yard Work!

2009-06-08T12:02:00.003-05:00

James and I have been doing some work on our front yard. I was so tired of the mulch that would wash away every time it rained. We wanted something different. Here are a few pictures of the progress we have made so far. I will keep you posted as we move along.

My lillies came back from last year. I love the color....so bright and cheery!

James planted this one by the side of the house. It has beautiful blooms!

After the mulch was dug out, we decided to make a walkway with pavers. This is before the pavers were put down. The center is a planter that will hold annuals.

This is the walkway almost finished...

Front flower bed with new plants, just no stones yet.

Dinner with the Tucker Family

2009-06-08T11:57:00.002-05:00

The Talleys

The Tuckers- Robert, Jill, Wyatt and Wyoming

Jill, me and the kiddos

Evan LOVED Wyatt. He really liked for Wyatt to play peek-a-boo with him.
It had been so long since I had visited with Jill. It was so good to see them and to catch up. We will have to plan a play date soon!!!

Female version of Evan

2009-06-08T11:55:00.002-05:00

Evan's sitter, Laura Beth thought it would be fun to see what a red-headed girl version of Evan would look like. She took her daughter's Build-A-Bear wig and this is what he looked like....

TOO CUTE!

Evan's Daddy Do

2009-06-08T11:53:00.003-05:00

Before James took Evan to Laura Beth's house the other day, he decided he needed a "new look." I call it the Daddy Do! Evan didn't seem to mind it!!! He looked so cute with his spiked up hair!

Random Pictures of Evan...

2009-06-08T11:32:00.008-05:00

Evan and his biggest fan...His Big Daddy!

Telling Nana all about it...

My hubby in his true form!
Time to baby proof the house!

I think I see something I like....

GOT IT!

Sunday before last, I left Evan playing in the floor for just one minute while I went to pack his bag for church. I heard a "clad, thump, then giggle" and went I went to check on him, this is what I found...silly boys!What? Am I not supposed to be under here?!Evan and James checking out the fish at the Catfish House in Millbrook.
My sweet little man!
Wild Bathtime Hair!!

His future is so bright, he's got to wear his shades!!

One afternoon, I decided to take him out and make some pictures in the front yard. I thought they turned out pretty cute.

He looks like he was in serious thought about something, doesn't he?

What a sweet sleeping baby!

Night Out Together

2009-06-03T15:26:00.003-05:00

Sweet Family Photo

Happy Birthday Nanny!

2009-06-03T15:23:00.004-05:00

We went to Centreville this past weekend to celebrate Nanny's 72nd birthday!

Happy Birthday Nanny! We love you VERY much!!!

Evan loves to talk to Nanny!!

Hanging Out with the LeVert Family!

2009-06-03T14:26:00.004-05:00

Evan LOVED Uncle Heath's volunteer fireman outfit. He thought it was cool!

Just look at that smile!!

Evan and his Nana

In Uncle Heath's uniform

Just chillin' out!

"Evan to the rescue!"

Evan and his Madi
Heath and Madison goofing off with Evan's hat

He loves Madison

Happy Mother's Day

2009-06-01T14:48:00.002-05:00

To Evan,

You are the most precious gift that God has given me. You bring more joy to my life than you will ever know. Your smile is contagious. You have filled our home with so much happiness. Thank you for making Mother's Day 2009 so special. Thanks for making me a mommy. I love you so much and praise the Lord for you each and every day. I pray that you will seek God in all you do in the years to come and that you will always know how much you were wanted and are loved. You are a precious jewel. Your tenderness is so sweet and your innocence is priceless. I love you little man! I am honored to be called your Mommy!

Evan and his Biter Biscuits

2009-06-01T14:46:00.002-05:00

These were taken several weeks ago. This was Evan's first attempt with the Biter Biscuits. He LOVES them. They are now his snack of choice!!

A little messy, but what cute pictures!!

Calling My Nana!

2009-06-01T14:43:00.003-05:00

Evan LOVES the phone. He was calling his Nana...I am sure to tell on us for something! He is very serious about the dialing!! :)

Home Recovering

2009-05-24T21:26:00.002-05:00

Early Wednesday morning, I woke up with severe pain in my belly. James took me to the ER to find that my gallbladder was full of stones. My gallbladder was removed Wednesday afternoon. I am now home recovering, but still having some pain. Thank goodness for pain meds! We had to spend our first night away from Evan. I missed him so much. Thank goodness it was just for one night. I hope to be back to work soon. It is hard being cooped up inside.

Easter Morning

2009-05-12T11:55:00.004-05:00

Evan's Easter Basket was filled to the max. Since he couldn't have candy yet, we had to make sure he had lots of goodies! It was so much fun!!

His face was priceless when he saw his new goodies!

"I'm diggin' in..."

Brotherly Love...

Even Pete was in on the action. He LOVES his new toys!

Easter with the Fam!

2009-05-12T11:48:00.003-05:00

Evan was all smiles with his Big Daddy after lunch on Easter! He always has so much fun with him. They are two peas in a pod!!!

Evan loves his Nana (she gives in to his every want-imagine that)!!

Evan and his girls...

I can get it...

Checking out his Easter Basket Loot....

Evan's First Easter Egg Hunt

2009-05-12T11:37:00.004-05:00

Evan's first Easter Egg Hunt was at our church. We had a great time, but missed Daddy (he had to work). Evan was so much fun. He was content after we collected the first egg. He just wanted to sit and try to eat it!! Next year, I am sure we will be running to try to catch up with him.

Evan and Ella in deep thought about the day's events...

YEA!!!! I got'em!!

An Afternoon with Friends

2009-05-12T11:28:00.004-05:00

Evan LOVES Ella!

My friend Laura Beth and I took our little ones to have pictures made together. Evan was only concerned with the straw and flowers around him and Henry refused to let us take his picture. We got one shot of Evan and Ella together and none of Evan and Henry. I thought they turned out pretty well if I do say so myself!!!

Long Time No Post!

2009-05-12T11:09:00.004-05:00

Ok, so it has been a while since I have been able to post. Let's play catch up! Here are some pictures that James took. Evan and his Daddy had a lot of fun hamming it up for the camera. They are so much fun together!

Look at that bed head!!!

Who....ME?!?!?

Evan's 6 month photos

2009-03-25T08:26:00.005-05:00

Here are some of the shots from Evan's 6 month photo shoot. He did such a great job! When we went for his check up, he was doing great, everything is right on track! Isn't his smile contagious?? We hope you enjoy!!

Vote for Evan!

2009-03-20T09:30:00.000-05:00

I have entered Evan in a photo contest. Please click on the link below and vote for our little man! It will take you through all of these offers, but you can choose to skip them. Sorry for that! We hope his picture brings a smile to your face!!

https://www.greatamericanphotocontest.com/voter1/index.aspx?referid=EmailFriends&p=1213161&x=.JPG

Have a wonderful day!

Thank You!

2009-03-18T15:37:00.003-05:00

Thanks to those of you who have called, sent messages or have prayed for our family during this time of grief. Granny was a treasure to all those who knew her. 93 years is a long time to live and love. She taught our family so much and will be missed very much. We laid her to rest on Tuesday afternoon. After all of the rain, Tuesday was such a beautiful day. A beautiful day for a beautiful lady.

We love you Granny!

Playtime Fun!!

2009-03-06T15:52:00.002-06:00

Evan went for his 6 month check up Monday. He is in the 60% for his weight (18.9 lbs) and is in the 70% for his height (26 3/4 in). He is sitting up all by himself and is able to play while sitting. He is sleeping 11-12 hours at night and still taking really good naps during the day. He will begin eating mashed potatoes, oatmeal and grits soon. In a couple of weeks we will start green beans and other veggies. We may never get him to eat baby food again!!

Here are some pictures I snapped last night of his play time before heading to bed.

Enjoy his sweet smile!

Granny's 93rd Birthday Bash

2009-02-17T14:33:00.003-06:00

We went to Centreville this past weekend to celebrate Granny's 93rd birthday. It was so good to see family that we had not seen in a while and to be able to introduce Evan to extended family members. Granny looked great and seemed to have a good time. We missed you Uncle Heath.

Happy Birthday Granny!

We love you very much!!

Granny and Nana

My Sweet Baby Boy

Random Pictures and Valentine's Night

2009-02-17T14:14:00.003-06:00

Here are some sweet pictures of my little man. Here is his smile that I LOVE so much!!

Bathtime is Evan's Favorite Time...

Our Sweet Little Valentine...

Evan was trying his hardest to get James' drink.

Evan and his gifts...

Pete and his Valentine prizes...

Evan's First Huntingdon Game

2009-02-17T14:02:00.003-06:00

We had a great time going to watch Uncle Heath during his first game of the season. This was Evan's first real experience at the ball field.

All bundled up in Aunt Pam's arms...

Daddy- Daughter Banquet at Church

2009-02-17T13:52:00.002-06:00

On February 6th, our church hosted a Daddy-Daughter dessert date night. Daddy came in to town to attend with me. We had a great time.

I love you Daddy and appreciate you so much! Thank you for being such an awesome person in my life. The Lord blessed me when he chose me to call you Daddy.

Evan's Teeth

2009-02-17T13:49:00.003-06:00

Here is a better picture of Evan's teeth. This was taken a while back, so they are even more visible now. He is getting so big!!

First Teeth

2009-01-29T13:51:00.002-06:00

Ok, so the picture is not the clearest (I will try to get a better shot), but Evan has his first "teeth." He cut the first one on Sunday and while we were at the Dr.'s office on Tuesday he said, "Oh Evan, I see those teeth." I thought, "Teeth? That's plural!!!" I knew there was one, but had missed the second one coming in. Anyway, he has 2 sweet little teeth down there! I guess now we have to be on guard for bitting!!!!

Veggie Time!!

2009-01-29T13:46:00.002-06:00

Mmm, Mmm, GOOD!!!!

Evan's first experience with vegetables was a lot of fun...at least for his daddy and me! We had a great time capturing these sweet faces! What a mess we made!!

Evan is HOME!

2009-01-29T10:35:00.004-06:00

Thank you so much for your sweet words and prayers. Dr. Trumbull came by this morning and said Evan was "wheeze free" and that his lungs sounded perfect! James and Evan left around 9 this morning. Here are some pictures of our little man during his stay in the O2 tent....

Sweet baby sleeping

GOING HOME....

We saw the Dr....

2009-01-28T10:04:00.002-06:00

...and he wants Evan to be under the tent for a couple of days. He said that he really feels this is the best place for him to be for his lungs to rest and recover from the strain. Thanks for your words of encouragement and prayers. He is a little restless, so James is trying to get him down for a morning nap. We will keep you posted as we know more.

Update on Evan...

2009-01-28T07:26:00.002-06:00

Good morning everyone! Evan had to be admitted to the hospital late yesterday afternoon, but rested well through the night. They have him on continuous oxygen to give his lungs a little time to rest and recover. RSV is really something to try to overcome. Please continue to remember Evan. We are at Baptist South in room 578.

Evan's First Real Illness

2009-01-22T13:09:00.001-06:00

James had to take Evan to the Dr. this morning. Dr. Morrison said that he has a mild case of RSV so they have placed him on 4 days of steroids. Please pray that his congestion and cough will ease, that he will keep his appetite, not run any fever and that he will be able to rest well. Thanks friends!

Thought it was worth sharing...

2009-01-09T10:03:00.003-06:00

Looking back, I can now see how my mom probably felt this way at times. Thank you for your dedication to our family and for enriching my life the way you did. I love you Mama!

THE INVISIBLE MOTHER

It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to be taken to the store. Inside I'm thinking, 'Can't you see I'm on the phone?' Obviously not; no one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all. I'm invisible.

The invisible Mom.

Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more: Can you fix this? Can you tie this? Can you open this? Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being.

I'm a clock to ask, 'What time is it?' I'm a satellite guide to answer, 'What number is the Disney Channel?'

I'm a car to order, 'Right around 5:30, please.'

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduated summa cum laude - but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's going, she's going, she's gone!

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England . Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in.

I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, 'I brought you this.' It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe.

I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription: 'To Charlotte, with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees.'

In the days ahead I would read - no, devour - the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work: No one can say who built the great cathedrals - we have no record of their names. These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. They made great sacrifices and expected no credit. The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, 'Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof? No one will ever see it.' And the workman replied, 'Because God sees.'

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, 'I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become.'

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride. I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on.

The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my child to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, 'My Mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table.' That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home.

And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, 'You're gonna love it there.' As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women. Great Job, MOM!

Share this with other outstanding Invisible Moms!

Catching Up...

2009-01-06T09:55:00.011-06:00

Evan's First Christmas!!!

This is a lengthy post with lots of pictures! We hope you enjoy being able to see how Evan spent his first Christmas. It is amazing how different Christmas is when you have a child. Christmas has always had a very special meaning, but this year was even more meaningful than ever.

All of this is because a baby was born...

Oh what fun we had!

We are already thinking about how much Evan will be in to next year. He really seemed to enjoy the paper this year, so I am sure we will have a hard time keeping him out of the presents next year!

It is amazing how one little baby changes everything!!!!
SANTA BABY...
Our tree Christmas morning...

Evan's new highchair filled with treats
What sweet Christmas kisses....Thanks Pete!!

Pete enjoying his stocking...

Playing with his toys Christmas morning

Tie a bow around his neck and stick him under the tree...

On December 23, Evan got to enjoy Christmas a little early with our dear friends Mr. Mike and his BetBet. Thank you so much for his John Deere outfit, books and overalls. He is ready and waiting on that tractor ride!!

Christmas with Granny was so much fun! We enjoyed lunch with her on Christmas Eve. Nothing says welcome Christmas like a McDonalds cheeseburger!!

We love you so much Granny!

Evan LOVES his new rattle!!

Christmas with the Talleys was fun for all.
Evan enjoyed all of his goodies!

Thanks for helping to make his first Christmas so sweet. We love you!

Evan and his MiMi...

All tuckered out from all the festivities. He had to catch a nap at Mimi and Papa's!

Christmas with Nana, Big Daddy and Uncle Heath at our house Christmas night...

Just the 3 of us...

Evan and his number 1 fan...
Uncle Heath and his MP3 Player
Taking time out before opening gifts for a bottle.

Thanks Big Daddy!!

Evan and his Nana, checking out the LOOT!

Thanks Nana and Big Daddy for my exersaucer. I really like it!!

Thanks guys for making Evan's first Christmas so special! We are so glad we were able to share time together! We love you!!

Last Friday morning, Evan went to visit Dr. Trumbull for his 4 month check up. He weighed in at 15.7 pounds and was 25 1/2 inches tall. He was in the 70-75% group!! He is such a big boy!! He had to get shots during this trip, but handled it like a trooper. His daddy had to take a seat away from Evan during shot time...I thought men were supposed to be the tough ones!!

Before Shots...All Smiles!!!

After Shots...Not So Much!!!

Last Friday night, Evan was exposed to cereal with a spoon for the first time....
He was not crazy about it, can you tell???

A Star is Born!!!

2008-12-22T10:11:00.004-06:00

Evan gave the performance of his little life last night. He played Baby Jesus in our church Christmas pageant. He was the best and sweetest of them all!

Great job Evan!!!

Merry Christmas!

2008-12-18T07:36:00.002-06:00

After several, several shots, we were finally able to get one with everyone looking! Who knew it could be so much work?!

Merry Christmas Greetings from the Talley Family!

I was goofing off with the camera and got some cute candid shots of Evan.

Pete refused to have his picture made beside the baby.

In his Christmas pj's (thanks Aunt Pam!!)

I've been a good boy...I PROMISE!!!

Random Pictures...

2008-12-18T07:26:00.005-06:00

Evan's first Iron Bowl weekend was something to shout about...It is about time!! We had a great time watching the TIDE ROLL IN!!!

TOUCHDOWN BAMA!!!!

Roll Tide...
This past weekend, Evan took his first really long car ride to see family in Georgia. We were there to celebrate Aunt Martha's 80th birthday. He did great! He slept a good bit and was entertained by Uncle Heath when he was awake.
Look how beautiful our birthday girl was! Happy Birthday Aunt Martha! We are so glad we were able to share in your special day! We love you very much!
Lookin' good too Uncle Rob!!!

Some pictures from Thanksgiving

2008-12-18T07:21:00.003-06:00

Evan's first Thanksgiving was so much fun. We ate a lot and enjoyed time with family and friends. Thanks everyone for making sure his first Thanksgving was something special!

Here is our little Turkey!
Pete even had a good time...

Here is Evan with his Mimi (James' mom)

3 Months Old

2008-12-17T07:23:00.003-06:00

My goodness! Where does the time go! This time last year, James and I were praying and hoping to conceive a baby and this year just look what a precious little boy we get to love, hug and kiss on each and every day. His smile just warms my heart. He has such a sweet personality. I love him more than I could have ever imagined!! What a wonderful gift we were blessed with.

Christmas Pictures by Leslie

2008-12-17T07:11:00.004-06:00

We got Evan's Christmas and 3 month picture CD yesterday and wanted to share. He has grown and changed so much!

Enjoy...

Evan is getting TOO BIG!!

2008-12-12T12:26:00.001-06:00

Last night Evan decided to "show off" a little. He was on his mat getting his "tummy time" in and decided he would let us in on a little secret...that he knows how to flip from his tummy to his back!!! He would just laugh each time he did it. He is so big!!

Back to normal!

2008-12-08T07:52:00.002-06:00

Thank you so much for your prayers that you sent on behalf of the Talleys. Evan was MUCH better Thursday, Friday and this weekend. James said he was "ridiculously happy" all day Friday. His sleeping is back on track as well.

Thanks again for being such great prayer warriors!!

Can you believe it's already Christmas time??!!

When you talk to Jesus...

2008-12-04T07:17:00.002-06:00

Please say a prayer for Evan. The past 2 days, he has not really acted like himself at the sitter's house. Yesterday, she emailed me and said that he had screamed pretty much all day and would not sleep. He did not even want to give out any smiles, which broke my heart...that is what helps me make it through the day- knowing I will see his smiling face at 4. He has been wanting to get up between 3:30 and 4 in the morning and WILL NOT go back to sleep. This is causing James and me to be tired and a little cranky. If he does the screaming fit again today, we will be going to see Dr. Trumbull...I just hate to be one of those "first time Mommys who runs to the doctor" (the one who the nurses laugh at once you leave!!!)- but I don't want him to be sick either. Please pray that we will know what we need to do, that Evan will get some rest and that James and I can relax a little and not be so "on edge." Thanks, dear friends!

Oh yeah....ROLL TIDE!!! What a great game!! :)

Pete as the Big Brother...

2008-12-01T07:38:00.002-06:00

Several have asked how Pete has adjusted to being the Big Brother...he is so protective of Evan. If Evan cries and James and I do not move fast enough, Pete lets us hear about it. He checks on him every night before he goes to bed and kisses him each morning. I think he and Evan are going to have a lot of fun together in the years to come. James has tried to get Evan on Pete's back...Pete does not really know what to think about that. I am sure the day is coming when we will look and Evan will be riding Pete's back down the hall!

There are some days where Pete will pout a little, if it has been a fussy day for Evan and he needs more attention; but we do try to balance it all out and spend some one-on-one time with Pete, too. James is really good about that.

It looks like Pete is ready to pounce, doesn't it?

Evan's 2 week photo shoot...

2008-11-26T07:09:00.009-06:00

Ok, so Evan will be 3 months this Friday and I am just now getting his 2 week photo shoot up...things get busy with a newborn!! Leslie Sisson from Fitzpatrick is the photographer who did my maternity shots and is taking all of Evan's pictures this year. For the 2 week shoot, she came to our house, which was great! Next weekend, we will be taking his 3 month pictures. It is amazing how much they change from day to day.

We think she did a great job!!

Happy Thanksgiving

2008-11-25T07:24:00.003-06:00

Happy Thanksgiving from the Talley's

James, Heather, Evan and Pete

This is our family picture from Evan's 2 week photo shoot.

Thinking Back...

2008-11-18T07:09:00.004-06:00

It is so hard to believe that next week Evan will be 3 months old. I heard people say, "Enjoy every minute, it goes by so fast" but I had no idea. Evan has now decided that he is too big to lay in your arms, he needs to be sitting up so he can see what everyone is doing. He has mastered rolling from his side to his back and is trying so hard to flip from his stomach to his back.

His little face and features have changed so much since day one. His smile is contagious and his cooing makes me laugh. He tries so hard to talk to us. You can see the wheels turning in his head. Each and every day he brings more and more joy to my life.

I am so blessed to call him my son!

More Pictures of Evan

2008-11-12T07:21:00.003-06:00

Here are some pictures of our sweet Evan!

We hope you enjoy!!

Look at those beautiful eyes!

He loves his bath time!

Sweet Face...

Proud Nana and Big Daddy...

What are you up to?!?!

Back To Blogging!

2008-11-11T08:17:00.006-06:00

Hey guys! I am excited to be re-joining the blogging world! I apologize for it taking me so long to post pictures of our little man! It is so hard to believe that Evan is almost 3 months old. Man, where does the time go? I came back to work Friday. It was hard to leave him, but it has been nice to have routine again.

It is amazing how one little person can change your life so much. Who knew I could love someone as much as I do Evan? He is a great combination of both James and me. I think he has my nose and lips, however there are certain faces that he makes and he looks just like his Daddy! He has a great morning attitude, he DEFINITELY got that from James! I love it that he welcomes me with a huge smile each and every morning. It helps to get the day started.

Here are some pictures of our pride and joy. I don't have time to post all that I want to share, so this will have to do for now. Since I already have some up from the hospital, I will share from most current to birth. I hope to post a little each day until we are all caught up. I am excited to be able to catch up on what has been going on with you all over the past 10 1/2 weeks as well! Hope to hear from you soon!!

Enjoy!!

Our little Lion!

Having fun at the Pumpkin Patch!!

Here's that precious SMILE!!

Update on Evan

2008-09-11T12:39:00.001-05:00

Evan is doing great! At birth, he weighed 8.3 pounds and was 20 1/2 inches long. We went today for a weight check and he is up to 8.7 pounds. We will see Dr. Trumbull for the first time on Tuesday. Thanks so much for the emails, phone calls and prayers. We are all doing well and managing to get some sleep!! I hope to have some updated pictures up soon.

First Family Picture

2008-08-31T15:01:00.002-05:00

Here we are...

Evan is Here!!!!

2008-08-31T14:49:00.004-05:00

Here are some pictures of our little man! Quick story of his delivery...we checked in Wednesday night to start the dilation pill, which did start contractions. Thursday morning, Dr. Ashurst broke my water and gave the ok for my epidural. I got that and was resting comfortably. The nurse came in to check my dilation and discovered some bleeding...more than she was comfortable with, she called the Dr. He ordered for them to prepare me for a C-section. Evan's heartrate was up. Within just a few minutes, we were in the section room preparing to meet Evan. Within 19 minutes our precious little man was here. He was sent to the NICU because he had some fluid on his lungs, his heartrate was elevated and his blood pressure was down. James went with Evan to the nursery as they finished everything up with me and I finally got to hold him later Thursday night. We are now waiting to be discharged to head home! He is getting to go home with us! I will post more details of the past few days later-some of which has been a blur and some details include the roller coaster emotions, with more pictures (of course). Hope you all enjoy!

Change of Plans!!

2008-08-25T16:21:00.000-05:00

It seems as though Evan will not be joining us until Thursday August 28. Dr. Ashurst has to go out of town for a funeral Wednesday, so the plan is to be admitted around 5:30 Wednesday afternoon and be induced Thursday morning. I wanted to cry when he told me the news!! Please remember us in your prayers...especially James as he takes care of me these next few days!!! Until next time...

Yesterday...

2008-08-21T12:17:00.001-05:00

Yesterday was our 3rd wedding anniversary! 3 whole years!!! :) It seems like it was just yesterday I was telling my mom about this WONDERFUL man I had met and how I would like to spend more time with him and here we are...about to hold and kiss our first born! Man how time goes by!!

I love you James, more than you could ever know. I feel so blessed that God chose me to be your wife. I could not ask for a better gift than your love. You mean the world to me. You are a wonderful, caring, loving, generous and thoughtful husband and I know you are going to be all of those plus some as a Daddy to Evan. I love you!! Thank you for dinner last night and for my beautiful Willow Tree figurine!

On a funnier note...I thought my water broke yesterday while I was in the treatment room with a patient, I went down to LDR only to find out it was not my water, but the mucus plug!! I was a little embarrassed to say the least! I guess it was better to be safe than sorry. I am now beyond the point of being ready...ready for my back not to hurt, ready to hold and kiss Evan, and ready to be tired, but because of different reasons!! I am sure you moms know what I am talking about!

We go back to see Dr. Ashurst Monday afternoon, so I am sure I will update Tuesday morning!

Baby Update-Week 38

2008-08-19T14:28:00.004-05:00

We saw Dr. Ashurst yesterday and he said that Evan's heartbeat was wonderful. We were able to do the ultrasound and it says that Evan measured 8lbs 9oz. I was dilated 1 cm (thanks for the prayers to get that rolling!!), which was progress from last week! YEA!!!

The plan is to go back on Monday, unless Evan decides to come before then, to be re-checked. If I am still at 1 cm, then we will be admitted on Tuesday night to get the dilation process started and then the induction on Wednesday morning- if I have dilated more than the 1 cm, then we will just wait to be admitted early Wednesday morning.

It looks like Wednesday August 27th will be Evan's birthday!!!

The Long Awaited Shot...

2008-08-19T14:26:00.001-05:00

Here it is...the long awaited and much anticipated sideways preggo shot.

My Daddy

2008-08-19T14:24:00.001-05:00

I could not resist posting this picture. This is my daddy, Evan's "Big Daddy!" He is so excited for Evan's arrival, but was one of the very last people to be able to feel him move. Love you, Daddy!